Have you ever asked yourself the question “How in the hell did I end up where I am today?” I constantly ask myself that. Some may have to ponder this for a while, but I can tell you step by step how it happened. That is a long story so we will just leave it by saying ….with ALOT of help.
As an adult now I always look back at my life and compare it to window shopping. I always saw things that others had, noticed that I was different. I didn’t have name brand clothes, shoes or anything of the materialistic items really. I always thought to myself “man it would sure be nice to have that though.” I always window shopped through an imaginary window. It was a window that was always present it seemed. I would see things differently, and not just material things. Things in life.
I knew from a young age that I wanted to be different than my family, and how things had been for so long. I wanted a better life. I told myself this repeatedly. I did just that too. I am the second oldest of seven. Growing up fast was a way of life not just an option. I was the first to graduate high school, the first to go to college, and the first to graduate college. I now have a Bachelors degree in physical education, Health, and certification kindergarten through twelfth grade. It wasn’t an easy road, but I made it.
Since graduation I have moved to South Korea to teach English for a year. Β I have been here nearly five months, and I’m still in love with the place. I would have to say I have an overwhelming feeling of being carefree. This is the first time in a long time I have been able to feel this way. I am doing me. Korea is different in so many ways. Nothing feels rushed, I am able to do things on my own terms, and you can travel from one end to the other in the matter of hours. I didn’t do much research before coming to Korea so I wasn’t sure what to expect. I didn’t really have any biased opinions, and can say I still don’t.The people are great, the food is delicious, and the drinking has no boundaries. If you get the chance you should really come visit. After all you a Visa isn’t necessary.
I created this blog to share my story. It won’t all be in order, but I think you will catch on. My brain never shuts down so I figured I would do something with all the thoughts I have.
Before I wrap up this quick blog I would like to say. DO YOU. WORRY ABOUT YOU. IN THE END IT’S YOUR LIFE, YOUR STORY, AND YOUR HAPPINESS. CHEERS.


Lillian, I’m so excited about your future. You’ve always been a lovely young lady. I love you and pray the Lord will be with you on your great adventure of life. Love, Cindy
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Lillian, I am so excited about your future. You’ve always been a lovely young lady. I pray God will continue to be with you as you go through the great adventure of your life. I love you, Cindy
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So proud of you. Love u tons!!!
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I’m glad you are writing blogs because I miss you and like being able to creep on what you are doing!
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Lilly, thank you for sharing your blog. You are an amazing young women. I am so happy for you. I will look forward to continuing to follow your story. π Take Care, Lisa
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Wow! Lilly, this is great, I am so proud of you and what you are doing. You can be an inspiration to others. Who would have imagined you would be where you are now! We are great. Guess you know Jessa has had another job change, some things never change but she is doing great in school. Take care of yourself and I will be following this blog to check on you and see what you are doing. Have fun and stay safe. I’ll tell Pap I heard from you. Luv, TF
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Thank you so much! I agree who would have ever imagined! Tell everyone hello for me! Love ya
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I am so happy for you, you have worked very hard.
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I love the last line of this blog. It’s the truest statement and I live it myself. Keep going, be strong, live and play hard and do what you want with your life. I’m so proud of and love you dearly.
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Thank you so much Aunt Cheryl. I am so glad to finally be able to share, and not feel ashamed or embarrassed. I am happy to say that I have been able to over come so much. I know I’m not the first person to over come such things nor will I be the last, but the least I can do is share and hope to help others in some way, shape, or form. Thanks for taking the time to read my blog! Love you
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