When you tell me I can’t do something that just pushes me harder to prove you wrong. While thinking about things that people have said to me I realized the actualization on how far I’ve came. I still find myself saying “I can’t believe I am in Korea. The obstacles I have overcame have helped me adjust here quite well. People often ask if I could change anything in my life would I. My reply is “No I wouldn’t because what I have gone through has made me the resilient, strong willed, and determined person I am today.

I often relate back to an experience I had in eighth grade. One of my teachers commented that I’m going to get pregnant and end up raising my family if things didn’t change in my household. Hearing this was not only crushing to hear from a teacher, but it pushed me to prove her wrong. That’s just what I did. I proved her wrong and graduated. I moved away from home and went to college, and now I am in Korea. I don’t know why anyone would have those expectations for someone who is in a rough situation. If anything as a teacher you should encourage people and try to be a positive influence in their life. Don’t think the worst of at risk students. If anything they are the ones that need a little extra care along the way.

“A diamond doesn’t start out polished and shining. It once was nothing special, but with enough pressure and time, becomes spectacular. I’m that diamond.”
― Solange Nicole

When you look at statistics I have beat the odds by and Million. Well a million is a large number but it’s a lot needless to say. Only 6% of foster children go to college and obtain a four year degree. I am fortunate enough to be able to say I am a small part of that 6% percent that works hard and has drive to overcome where they came from. I work hard to improve my life in all aspects.

You can’t change where you came from and what you came from, but never forget it. It’s what helped create who you are and will always be a part of you. Be unique there are too many average people to try and compare yourself to. Go out and try new things. I used to think man I just want to be “normal”. In reality I don’t think being normal actually exists. It’s all just an illusion. Everyone has a story make yours one that people will remember.

I refuse to be another statistic and don’t have time for bull shit excuses. I am resilient and refuse to let anything in the way of creating a better life for myself. Look out world I’m coming for ya!