My friend Steffi met a friend in Korea who is a photographer. He did a photo shoot and named it masturbation recently, because when you masturbate you do it to please yourself.Well sometimes for others, but there’s no need to get into all of that. I’ll leave that up to your imagination! Anyways, I got thinking recently and the thought of life and masturbation went together quite well. You should live you life to please yourself. Some may think this topic is uneasy to talk about; but life is uneasy. You can’t control what may happen. You just have to take it as it comes.

There has been so many times that I have looked back on, and realized I was living my life to make others happy. I would think about what others would think of my choices before I made them. There are times that I now see I could have made the choice for myself, and left the thought of others completely out of it. I say that I have grown so much by coming to Korea all the time, but it’s the honest truth. The change of perspective that traveling can do for a person is unbelievable. You meet new people on a regular basis. These people help you see the world as something other than just a place to live. You see opportunity, courage, faith, and hardships that others have overcome. It makes you want to be a better person in all aspects. Well that’s how I feel about it I would hope that others would too.

Life doesn’t have to be made up of the choices that others help you make. Make the choices for yourself and let those choices impact your life for the better. The choices that you make help create and define who you are. Look at yourself and ask “Is this who I intended on becoming?” “Is this the best that I can be?” “Am I making the choices for myself or for the sake of others?” There are already enough pressures in society to be someone else. You should want to be your own person and make the best of everything.

So yeah back to masturbation. You do it for YOURSELF. To pleasure yourself whenever you want. Yes you may do it for others sometimes. The key word in that sentence is SOMETIMES. Sometimes is okay, but just know when enough is enough. Pleasure yourself in everything that you do. Some may say this sounds selfish, but to me it’s how you get the most out of life. Stop worrying about what others may think because more than likely their thoughts won’t matter anyways.

Put some serious thought into what you want out of life. Make the effort to change things if you don’t like them. Don’t settle for good when you can have great! Masturbate for life to pleasure yourself. Don’t worry about what may happen, what could happen, or what should have happened. There’s nothing you can do about it now. Let things be for what they are, and if anything learn from it for the sake of yourself.